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Daily Mindfulness Practice: Free Audio Download

by Monica A. Frank, Ph.D.

The following is part of a series of audios to teach how to practice mindfulness. Developing your ability to focus on the present moment can reduce distress and improve well-being.

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Index for Mindfulness Audios

Additional reading:

Some tips for using these audios:

  • Start with the Understanding Mindfulness audios to learn about mindfulness.
  • These short practice exercises are to help train your brain to be more mindful when engaged in daily activities.
  • The audio format is just for convenience to help learn the material. You can also read the transcript. When you practice, however, you should engage in the behavior mindfully without listening to the audio.
  • The best way to train your brain to be more mindful is to practice in short sessions throughout the day while engaged in your normal activities.
  • The descriptions are an artificial way to help you get started. Eventually, the practice of mindfulness is being aware of what is described without using an inner verbal description.
  • This exercise is simply paying full attention when you are engaged in a conversation with someone. Too often, when we are talking to others we are not mindful of the conversation itself. We are focused on what we want to say or we might even be thinking about something totally unrelated.

Next Exercise

Transcript of Audio: Engaged in Conversation

As you have a conversation, allow yourself to fully immerse in the conversation. Pay attention to the other person. Notice the gestures they make and other non-verbals such as their tone of voice and eye contact. Notice the word choice they use. Pay attention to the point the person is making without any judgment. Notice your own non-verbals. How are you showing interest? Instead of preparing a response, allow yourself to be fully aware of the ebb and flow of the conversation. Let yourself respond spontaneously with the full understanding of the conversation.

Mindfulness and Relaxation Methods
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