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Understanding Mindfulness
Audios for mindfulness training

Why Learn Mindfulness?

Mindfulness can improve both mental and physical health by reducing stress, lowering blood pressure, improving sleep, and enhancing emotional resilience. Learning mindfulness helps you respond more calmly to life’s challenges while supporting overall well-being.

Getting Started with the Mindfulness Audio Series
  • Each audio includes a transcript—read or listen based on your preference.

  • Begin with Step 1 and follow the steps in order for the best results.

  • Take your time—spend weeks or even months with each step before moving on.

  • Repetition is key. Return to earlier steps whenever needed.

Understanding Mindfulness
Step 1: Basic Mindfulness Practice

What You'll Learn in This Step:
  • What mindfulness is and why it can be difficult to define

  • Common misconceptions about mindfulness

  • How to bring mindfulness into daily life without setting aside extra time

  • The importance of refocusing attention rather than trying to eliminate thoughts
What You'll Learn in This Step:
  • Why mindfulness helps reduce mental suffering

  • How focusing on the present improves decision-making in a crisis

  • Techniques to reduce anxiety by shifting your focus

  • The role of mindfulness in managing physical pain
What You'll Learn in This Step:
  • Why avoiding emotions keeps them alive

  • How emotions differ from moods

  • The role of thought in emotional intensity

  • Using mindfulness to observe and tolerate emotions

  • How mindfulness creates emotional flexibility and freedom
What You'll Learn in This Step:
  • Why mindfulness helps reduce mental suffering

  • How focusing on the present improves decision-making in a crisis

  • Techniques to reduce anxiety by shifting your focus

  • The role of mindfulness in managing physical pain

Understanding Mindfulness
Step 5: Mindfulness and Grief

What You'll Learn in This Step:
  • Why mindfulness helps reduce mental suffering

  • How focusing on the present improves decision-making in a crisis

  • Techniques to reduce anxiety by shifting your focus

  • The role of mindfulness in managing physical pain

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Eating a Piece of Fruit

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to practice mindful eating by focusing on the experience of eating a piece of fruit. By becoming fully aware of the taste, texture, aroma, and sensations while eating, you can increase your satisfaction and reduce mindless overeating.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Eating a Piece of Chocolate

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise is designed to help you practice mindful eating by fully focusing on the experience of eating a piece of chocolate. When you eat mindfully, you are more likely to feel greater satisfaction and are less likely to overeat.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Doing the Dishes

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to transform an ordinary task — washing the dishes — into a mindful experience. By fully focusing on the sensations, sounds, and movements involved, you can create a sense of calm and presence during everyday activities.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Eating a Crunchy Vegetable

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you practice mindful eating by focusing on the experience of eating a crunchy vegetable. By paying attention to the taste, texture, and sound of each bite, you can increase your satisfaction and reduce mindless eating.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Sitting

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to develop greater awareness of the present moment, even when that moment feels uncomfortable or uneventful. Try this exercise in different places — a hard chair, a soft cushion, or outdoors — to explore varying sensations. Unlike relaxation techniques, mindfulness focuses on learning to tolerate discomfort and remain present with your experience.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
An Itch

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to develop awareness of discomfort by focusing on the experience of an itch without automatically reacting to it. Unlike relaxation techniques, mindfulness is about learning to observe discomfort without trying to escape or suppress it.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Stretching

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to transform an everyday action—stretching—into a mindful, calming experience. By fully focusing on the sensations, movements, and feelings involved in stretching, you can cultivate greater awareness and relaxation throughout your day.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Walking

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to transform a simple, everyday action—walking—into a mindful and calming experience. By fully focusing on the sensations, movements, and surroundings involved in walking, you can enhance your presence and awareness throughout your day.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling the Air

What You'll Learn:

By fully focusing on the sensations, movements, and surroundings involved in just experiencing the air around you, you can enhance your presence and awareness throughout your day. This exercise is especially simple to begin to implement in your life. You can practice it at any time in any place. It is simply paying attention to the feel of the air around you.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Engaged in Conversation

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise teaches you how to be fully present when talking with others. Instead of thinking ahead to what you want to say or letting your mind wander, you can focus completely on the conversation, enhancing connection, understanding, and emotional balance.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Reading a Book

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to fully immerse yourself in the experience of reading. By paying close attention to the physical sensations, visual details, and mental engagement involved in reading, you can turn a simple activity into a calming, present-centered practice.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Closing Your Eyes

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to gently close your eyes and fully tune into the experience. By noticing the subtle sensations, shifts in awareness, and the environment around you, this practice helps you develop a deeper sense of calm, presence, and inner connection.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Listening

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you develop awareness by focusing fully on the experience of listening. Rather than tuning out background noise, you’ll practice noticing all the different sounds around you—pleasant or unpleasant—without judgment. This exercise strengthens your ability to stay present and grounded, even in less-than-ideal environments.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Heat

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you explore the experience of heat with full awareness. Whether you're sitting in the sun, near a fire, or by a heater, you’ll learn to tune into the subtle and sometimes intense sensations of warmth on your body—without judgment or resistance. This practice builds your capacity to stay present with both comfort and discomfort.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Cold

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to be fully present with the experience of cold. Whether you're stepping outside on a chilly day or holding an ice cube in your hand, the goal is to notice the physical sensations without labeling them as good or bad. This practice strengthens your ability to tolerate discomfort and stay grounded in the moment.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Doing an Unpleasant Chore

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you shift your relationship with tasks you’d rather avoid. Instead of rushing through or resisting the experience, you’ll learn to be fully present while doing an unpleasant chore—observing the sensations, thoughts, and emotions that arise without judgment. This practice builds emotional resilience and the ability to tolerate discomfort with greater calm.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Touching a Door Knob

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you start your day with intention by focusing fully on the simple act of getting dressed. Instead of rushing through your morning routine on autopilot, you’ll learn to stay present with each movement, sensation, and thought—turning an ordinary task into a grounding mindfulness cue. By practicing mindfulness during one of your first daily activities, you train your brain to carry that awareness into the rest of your day.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Getting Dressed

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you start your day with intention by focusing fully on the simple act of getting dressed. Instead of rushing through your morning routine on autopilot, you’ll learn to stay present with each movement, sensation, and thought—turning an ordinary task into a grounding mindfulness cue. By practicing mindfulness during one of your first daily activities, you train your brain to carry that awareness into the rest of your day.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Experiencing Rain

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to connect with the experience of rain—whether you’re walking in it, watching it through a window, or simply imagining it. Instead of retreating from the discomfort or letting your thoughts drift, you’ll learn to stay present with the sounds, sensations, and emotions that arise. Rain offers a powerful opportunity to practice acceptance, patience, and sensory awareness in a natural and ever-changing environment.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Experiencing a Neutral Object

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you focus fully on a neutral object—something that doesn’t naturally trigger strong feelings or associations. By observing it with open awareness and without judgment, you may discover how your relationship to the object shifts simply by being present with it. This practice trains your mind to let go of preconceived ideas and experience things as they are, moment by moment.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Digging in the Garden

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to focus fully on the physical sensations of digging in the garden. By bringing your attention to the texture, resistance, temperature, and rhythm of the activity, you’ll learn to stay grounded in the present moment through direct sensory experience. Practicing this in different conditions—such as after a rain or when the soil is dry—can deepen your connection to the environment and help you become more aware of how external changes affect your internal experience.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Walking Up Stairs

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you bring full awareness to the act of walking up and down stairs. By focusing on the sensations in your legs, feet, breath, and balance, you’ll learn to stay grounded in the moment—even during movement that may be physically demanding. Practicing on different staircases, at various speeds, and for different durations helps you build mindfulness into everyday transitions and develop awareness of how your body responds—especially when fatigue sets in.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Lifting Weights

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you tune into the physical and sensory experience of lifting weights. By focusing on the sensations of effort, movement, breath, and muscle fatigue, you’ll learn to bring mindful awareness into strength-based activity—turning a workout into a moment of presence. Practicing with different weights, speeds, and durations helps you stay connected to your body and recognize how it responds to effort and resistance.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Lying Down

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you focus fully on the physical sensations of lying down—whether on a soft bed, a firm floor, or any surface in between. Rather than adjusting for comfort, the goal is to observe and accept your experience exactly as it is. This practice is especially helpful for learning to tolerate mild physical discomfort and developing nonjudgmental awareness of your body in stillness.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Falling to Sleep

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise invites you to gently observe the experience of drifting off to sleep. While it may seem unusual to be aware during a process that involves losing awareness, this transition offers a unique opportunity for mindfulness—and for many, it can actually support falling asleep more easily. By noticing the subtle shifts in body, breath, and thought as you relax into sleep, you practice letting go with calm attention and acceptance.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Exercise to Exhaustion

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise focuses on being fully present with the experience of aerobic exercise to the point of exhaustion. Instead of distracting yourself or pushing through discomfort automatically, you’ll learn to observe the sensations, thoughts, and physical changes that arise—both during the effort and in the recovery afterward.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Bored

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you develop greater tolerance of boredom by learning to be fully present with the experience, rather than avoiding or resisting it. While the audio offers guidance, the actual mindfulness practice involves observing boredom as it arises in real time—with openness, curiosity, and without judgment.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Excitement

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you develop emotional awareness by staying fully present with the experience of excitement. While excitement is often seen as a positive emotion, it can still feel overwhelming or lead to impulsive behavior if not mindfully observed. The audio provides guidance for tuning into the sensations of excitement, but the actual practice involves allowing yourself to notice and stay with the experience when it naturally arises.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Loneliness

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise helps you develop emotional tolerance by learning to stay present with the experience of loneliness. Rather than distracting yourself or trying to avoid the feeling, mindfulness teaches you to observe it gently and without judgment. The audio offers guidance, but true mindfulness practice involves becoming fully aware of your experience when loneliness arises naturally.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Disappointment

What You'll Learn:

This guided mindfulness exercise supports emotional resilience by helping you stay present with the experience of disappointment. Rather than avoiding or minimizing the feeling, mindfulness encourages you to observe it with openness and compassion. The audio provides guidance, but the real practice is to become fully aware of your experience when disappointment naturally arises.

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Embarrassed

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Frustrated

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Sadness

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Helpless

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Remorse

Daily Mindfulness Practice
Feeling Apprehension